If it is possible for you to try the bedding for some time, it will be better. This way, you will know the comfort level that you will feel with it. Try to ask the seller if you can get a sampler of it so that you can bring it home.
Girls are more fashion conscious about the things that they are buying for themselves. That is why there will be numerous options for each and every material that is being manufactured for them. There is no difference in the case of bedding as well.